Hello, my mom lives in an apartment complex for seniors in Phoenix, AZ. She just told me she has to clean her apartment because the police might come inspect and sent me this photo. Is this legal? I am a recent homeowner but before a couple of years ago I had lived in apartments for over a decade and never once has a landlord told me the police might randomly inspect my unit.

Dealer is 90 minutes away. They said they ordered the part and will replace it but after spending $38k it is just infuriating they didn’t take good care of the car. Now I’ll have to spend a day at the dealership and driving back and forth for them to fix it. Seems that some car dealers can’t get out of their own way.

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years and share multiple kids together. My boyfriend has a way higher sex drive than I do, however, we still have great sex about once a day, sometimes more than that. So our bedroom definitely isn’t dead.

The problem is the fact my boyfriend keeps trying to wake me up to have sex in the most annoying hours of the night, I’m talking 3 or 4am. I used to just have sleepy sex and go back to bed, but lately especially with our newborn, I’m damn tired! I can’t wake up for sex and it’s seriously grating my nerves when he tries because he is relentless. He will try to pull down my shorts, I’ll pull them back up, he pokes me with his penis, whispers in my ear, tries to put his hand down my pants, etc. it puts me in such a bad mood to be woken up lately especially for sex when like I said we have it pretty much once a day sometimes more.

I have told him this multiple times that I don’t like it lately. But when he gets “rejected” in the morning as he calls it, he will mumble under his breath about how i never want him, how no wonder he watches so much porn, that it’s sad his girlfriend never touches him, how I used to love it, etc…he huffs and puffs, turns away from me and moves to the opposite side of the bed… when like I said. WE HAVE SEX EVERY DAY. and it’s not good enough.

Anyways AITAH for no longer waking up at 4am to accept sex? Am I really that abnormal for prioritizing my sleep and actually feeling really disrespected and annoyed by this ?